My ideas for happy travels
I am no expert traveler.
Sure, I’ve done my share of traveling. I’ve taken tours, I’ve traveled independently, and I’ve traveled with friends and family. I’ve made mistakes and learned from my mistakes. So I suppose that qualifies me to offer advice.
But I am clear that there’s no one right way to travel. What has worked for me might not work for you. There are a lot of places people rave about that failed to impress me. When I post tips on travel forums, I’ve sometimes been contradicted; sometimes my knowledge of the subject has been called into question.
None of this will stop me from offering tips. But take them with a grain of salt.
Early last year, before the global pandemic put the kibosh on the trips I was going to take, I was lucky to do some traveling. I have officially postponed my trip to the Middle East until the fall of 2021, and I’m about 50–50 on whether to postpone further.
I could just skip adding any new content on my blog, but I thought I might share a little about my past travels from the perspective of time.
I’ve visited all fifty of the United States. To be fair, I shouldn’t say I visited them all. But I’ve at least been in them all. Some of them I have not seen nearly enough of to make a judgment. But all I can do is offer an opinion based on what I have seen of each state.(more…)
The first half of this trip is some of the slowest travel I’ve ever done in Europe.
The first two weeks I am spending in just three locations: Prague for four nights, Dresden and Berlin for five each. (After that, the pace gets a little faster: thirteen nights in five Polish cities.)
I spent five nights in Amsterdam on my last trip to Europe. That trip had eight separate destinations in just three weeks, so a lot of two-night stays.
My first solo trip to Europe was twelve nights in four places. In general, I’ve tried to stick to two nights minimum per stop, but there are occasionally exceptions.
There are some advantages to covering a lot of ground. The faster you go, the more different places you see. You can check off more items on your bucket list. Often, each stop is a place where the goal is to see something specific, so you can arrive and settle in at your hotel in the early afternoon, go see what you came to see, have dinner, sleep, wake up, have breakfast, and move on. And every time you arrive somewhere new, there’s a kind of quick thrill of seeing things for the first time.
I’m now on the train, heading toward Berlin after five nights in Dresden. And based on my experience there, I’m eager to shift my travel style and slow down.
There’s a gradual transition that takes place the longer you spend in one place, and it’s magical. It’s a transition from alien to inhabitant, from tentative to confident, from conspicuous to comfortable, from feeling like a guest to feeling like you are at home.
I loved how that transition took place over four nights in Prague, and even more over five nights in Dresden.
Last night, my final night in Dresden, I went for a walk across the Elbe in the Neustadt (new town) area. There are no sights to see there. It’s just a place where Dresdeners were out and about, living their lives, doing their daily roiutine. There were lots of pubs and restaurants filled with people, nary a tourist among them. I chose a quiet restaurant for dinner, and it was totally relaxing. I was far from the throngs of tourists eating at rows of tables set up outside the many nearly identical restaurants on Neumarkt, the square I overlooked from my hotel room. While I was walking I came across a big demonstration, and I asked someone what was going on. It was a protest against a law in Saxony that gives the police greater access to people’s private information.
A block further on, more Dresdeners were sitting at the pubs enjoying their beer.
I just loved my walk through that neighborhood. I also love taking time away from sightseeing to go shopping, not in souvenir shops but in department stores, hardware stores, drug stores, supermarkets.
I love feeling like I’m in my home away from home.
It’s All Good
I’m convinced there’s no one right pace for traveling. I still love the thrill of coming out of the train station in a new place and seeing everything for the first time. If you don’t mind living out of a suitcase (because you won’t feel like unpacking everything for just a one- or two-night stay), and you don’t mind spending much of your vacation time getting from place to place, by all means enjoy being constantly on the go. There’s a lot to be said for that style of travel.
But if you’ve never slowed down, I’m starting to realize you’re missing something you cannot acquire in fast-paced travel. It’s totally worth discovering.
After four days in Stockholm, it’s time to head to Tallinn on an overnight ferry. I load my travel backpack and walk to the metro station to head to the ferry terminal.
I board a very crowded train, grab hold of a strap, and try to keep my balance as the train hitches and jerks under the streets of the Gamla Stan. This one guy on the train keeps jostling me, as if he is trying to reach for a distant strap or make his way through the crowd. But there’s no where for him to go.
My backpack is heavy. The walk was long, and I am fatigued, both mentally and physically, after almost two weeks of travel. This guy is annoying. He keeps bumping me, and I am just trying to hang onto the strap so I don’t fall.
Finally we reach the stop where I have to change to another train. I get off, and as I try to get my bearings to figure out where the next train will arrive, I put my hand in my pocket where my wallet is.
Except it isn’t there.
Pickpockets can strike anywhere, but they are most effective in places where there are a lot of people and a lot of activity to distract us. Places like crowded metro stations and trains, busy tourist attractions, and areas where street performers have gathered a big audience are favorite spots for pickpockets to lurk. And as alert and savvy as we think we are, we can’t keep our guard up 100% of the time. Even Rick Steves has had his wallet stolen.
Enter the Money Belt
Fortunately, I had a money belt. At the time, I wasn’t wearing it, but rather was carrying it in my backpack. Unfortunately, in my hurry to make my way to the ferry, I had neglected to transfer my credit cards and driver’s license into my money belt. I had $200 cash and my passport (thank goodness!) and nothing else.
Money belts come in many different varieties. Like the one pictured above, a common design has an elastic waistband. You wear it under your clothes. Another option is the neck wallet, which hangs under your clothes from a strap around your neck. You can also find actual belts that have zipper compartments on the inside, but you won’t fit much into these other than some cash.
My thinking is that this is a no-brainer. Keeping your valuables secure under your clothing where they are inaccessible to pickpockets is a smart idea.
And yet I have read a wide range of blogs and articles and travel forums online where the authors argue vehemently against the use of money belts. Why the almost religious fervor? I do not know. But the arguments are based on the following ten points:
1. Locals don’t use them, so we shouldn’t either.
There are a several reasons locals don’t use money belts. First, they don’t especially look like tourists. They aren’t stopping to take photos or following a map or guidebook. They might not be carrying a lot of money, credit cards, or a passport. And if they are a victim of a pickpocket, they can go home. They have friends and family who can help them recover. While being pickpocketed in your home city is inconvenient beyond question, it will not force you to disrupt a trip you’ve spent many months and many dollars planning.
2. You don’t use it at home, so why should you use it when you’re traveling?
This is pretty much the same argument as #1, and the response is pretty much the same. The risk may be lower if you are not distracted by your sightseeing and are not hanging out in places that are frequented by tourists (and by pickpockets). And the consequences are probably lower as well. On the other hand, when I lived in the suburbs of New York and was traveling into the city, I always stuffed some cash into my socks, so if I was pickpocketed, I wouldn’t be stranded. Sometimes, even at home, it makes sense to take precautions.
3. The likelihood of being pickpocketed is so remote, there’s just no need to wear a money belt.
People who make this argument will often go on to say that they’ve traveled all over the world, never worn a money belt, and never had their pocket picked. QED.
This is an example of hasty generalization. First of all, it may or may not be true that getting pickpocketed is rare. Second, just because it hasn’t happened to me, it doesn’t follow that it’s unlikely to happen to anyone.
And even if it is rare (which is is not, though statistics are very hard to come by, since many non-violent thefts go unreported), if wearing a money belt reduces the risk, is it really such a bad idea? We buy insurance to protect against unlikely risks. We wear seat belts. We take many precautions against unlikely calamities.
4. All the thieves and muggers know about these and will find them, so they don’t actually protect you.
Isn’t that kind of like saying that locking your car door won’t actually protect you because the thieves can just break the window?
It’s probably true that a money belt won’t protect you from a violent attack. But it’s not meant to. It’s meant to protect you from having your pocket picked.
5. Money belts are uncomfortable.
Maybe some are. The one I use is made of silk and I’m so unaware of it that sometimes I have to check to make sure I still have it on. (Maybe I’d be better off if it were slightly uncomfortable.)
6. Money belts are conspicuous.
If you open your clothes in public to access what’s in your money belt, yes, they are going to be conspicuous. Or if you load them with bulky items that cause them to create bulges. But that’s not how you should use your money belt. Keep reading, and I’ll get to that below.
7. Money belts look ridiculous.
Only if they are conspicuous. See #6 above.
8. Using a money belt encourages carelessness.
If you think putting your valuables in a pouch hidden under your clothing makes you immune to theft, you are wrong. You’re just making the pickpocket’s job more difficult. Don’t become casual about security in general just because you’re wearing a money belt.
But to suggest that the money belt will cause you to be cavalier is just silly. It’s just too easy to let your guard down or to be distracted or confused or scammed by clever techniques to part you and your valuables. This is true whether or not you are hiding things where they are largely inaccessible to thieves.
9. It is a proclamation that you are suspicious of everyone, which is at best insensitive, at worst steeped in bigotry.
I have to say I don’t understand this one at all. If I walk around with my money hidden under my clothes, how does this indicate any particular attitude about anyone? In fact, wouldn’t it be worse if you carried a cross-body bag and huddled it in front of you? Doesn’t that convey more mistrust? And let’s be clear about one thing: there are no age, gender, or ethnic markers that make pickpockets identifiable. Precaution is just sensible.
10. It’s better to divide your valuables in multiple safe places on your person and in your luggage, so if you lose one, you won’t lose it all.
I couldn’t agree more.
No one strategy will keep your valuables safe while traveling. Don’t rely solely on a money belt, or on any other tool or technique or philosophy. But when you consider the consequences of having your trip disrupted by a pickpocket, there’s little doubt in my mind that having valuables out of sight and out of reach by probing hands is a good thing.
My opinion is that a money belt can be one part of a coordinated strategy that includes constant vigilance, avoiding distractions, leaving valuables in the hotel safe, carrying a purse or day bag across your body in front, and being discreet about what pockets you have money or credit/debit cards stashed. A money belt is not an essential part of your travel gear, though you may wish to use one if you think it will make you feel more secure.
How to Use Your Money Belt
The most important rule about using a money belt is that you should never ever access it in public.
If you need to get something out of your money belt while you’re out and about, duck into the nearest WC. The worst thing you can do is fumble around inside your clothes trying to get your passport or a debit card out of your money belt.
Carry what you are using that day in your pocket: some cash, maybe a credit card, maybe a debit card. There are ways to secure these as well: pockets with zippers and snaps. Safety pins and strings. Rubber bands. All of these might work, though they all work best in conjunction with constant vigilance.
I generally recommend keeping extra cash, backup credit and debit cards, and even my passport in the safe in my lodging, if there is one. Even if there isn’t, I think it’s generally smarter to hide valuables in a compartment in my luggage in my room while I’m out for the day.
But on the days when I’m transferring between destinations, I have all my valuables with me, so I need to figure out the best way to keep everything safe. I put some stuff in a deep corner of my luggage, maybe in a sock in the dirty laundry compartment, or in a hidden zippered area. I carry the stuff I know I’ll need in a zippered pants pocket, making sure no one pocket has enough in it to produce a visible bulge. On these days, I either wear my money belt or stow it away in my luggage.
Whether or not you decide to use a money belt or neck wallet, be alert. Don’t allow thieves to spoil your vacation.
And don’t allow worrying about thieves to spoil your vacation either. Chances are you will not be a victim of theft. So go see the world, and have a great time!
I don’t think I’ve ever planned a trip without someone, either on a forum or in real life, suggesting alternatives to my itinerary. When I went to the Balkans, I heard from people who said I needed more time in Dubrovnik and others who said I needed less time in Dubrovnik. And no where did I get more varied opinions than when asking about Belgium. There are four major tourist destinations in Belgium (in addition to countless smaller places that are undoubtedly worth seeing): Brussels, Ghent, Bruges, and Antwerp. There are 24 different ways of prioritizing those four cities, and I have no doubt you could get 24 different opinions if you asked 24 different people on a travel forum.
When you travel a long way to see wonderful things, there is a natural impulse to squeeze in as many destinations and activities and great sites as possible. After all, you might not ever get back, and you’re so close, how can you not go to _______?
I can definitely relate. Whenever I plan an itinerary, I try to see as much as I can. And invariably, I don’t make it to a lot of the places I hoped to see.
With just a few weeks until my Beltherway trip, I am spending a lot of time trying to get organized. That involves not just making final itinerary plans, but also making a checklist for packing and pre-trip preparations — things like remembering to stop mail delivery, turn down the heat, and notify my credit card issuer of my plans.
I’m feeling anxious.
I’ve had generalized anxiety before, nothing severe, but I’m feeling specifically anxious about this trip. I’ve got a nervous feeling in my gut and I’m not sleeping well, waking up in the middle of the night or much too early in the morning.
I’m not sure what I’m anxious about, though there are some possibilities.
Picking the right guidebook is always a challenge. On the one hand, any guidebook is going to provide useful information, so you won’t necessarily have a better or worse vacation by picking one guidebook over another. But some guidebooks provide advice and recommendations that fit a particular traveler’s interests, budget, and time constraints; others are more a compendium of every potentially interesting sight and activity. Also, some have big long sections on where to stay. That can be helpful if you are traveling on the fly and looking for lodging as you go. If you plan ahead and book lodging beforehand, those sections are a waste of space and are extra stuff to carry around.